Saturday, April 05, 2008

Another update

I got a part time job.

Things are slowly moving forward.

I haven't tried to stop watching porn. I've averaged about 30-60 minutes a day.

I'm close to moving past this depression though.

I'm just taking things slow and steady.

EDIT: I realized some of you guys have written comments and I haven't responded. I'm sorry about that. I don't get many so I forget to check.

Some of you have asked for advice. I have written a lot on the process of quitting porn. I've written a lot of advice.

However, when someone asks me for advice directly, I'm hesitant to offer it because I haven't succeeded yet.

When I do succeed, maybe in the form of going a hundred days without porn, I'll summarize this blog because I realize it's dauntingly long.

Until then I'll just offer support.

If you are quitting porn,

1. You have shown that you have gained an incite into yourself.

2. You understand that this behavior (watching pornography) is a sign that something is missing in your life.

3. You may or may not know what that missing part of your life is but you do know something is wrong.

All I'm going to say is this:

Don't beat yourself up. The fact that you look at porn is just a sign. It's just an incite that's telling you to dig down deep and figure yourself out.

That's all for tonight.


  1. Hi Driveon,

    I commented on your blog on Jan 23.

    Some advice:

    Look at all the porn and jerk off all you want. After a while you'll get tired of the porn. Go to a bar and meet a woman to have sex with. If you drink, take a taxi (drunk driving is something you really don't want to do). If you don't succeed at one bar, go to another. Do it again. Keep at it. You will meet women who'll want to have all the sex you can imagine. Porn is just another pastime.

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