Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Day 64


I had this thought running through my head: "I can't get laid." Like I'm not worthy enough or experienced enough or some other such bs. It sucked and it made me feel really bad.

This was the result of that bad date... Anyways it led me to looking at some sex-related forums.... I even considered looking at porn but didn't.

It seems that this belief is very detrimental towards quitting porn. It runs along this logic that if I can't get laid in real life than I gotta have women some how... and that some how is pornography.

Very bad thought to have. Very depressing, very unhelpful towards quitting porn.

I can get laid but I'm not going to put the effort into it until these god DAMN admission essays and applications are done. Cause I'm way too stressed out.

1 comment:

  1. I can't tell whether you're in high school or college but I will tell you this about my experience: I had a girlfriend in high school, but once I got to college, I didn't get laid for five years. I started to think the same thing: there's something wrong with me. There was, but it was all in my head. I was insecure and women knew it.

    I've been out of college for about five years now, and the distance has led me to a few conclusions. First, people don't have as much sex in college as you think. A few people are getting some when they're drunk as hell, a few have girlfriends, a few are outright lying, but most people are getting little or nothing. And a few of those who are getting laid are spreading herpes around anyway.

    Then you get out of college, you grow up a little, you get a little more confidence in yourself, and all of a sudden women are checking you out more and talking to you. It happened to me.

    So try not to fall into the pattern of blaming yourself. You're doing the best you can with what you know. Keep talking to girls, learn from your mistakes, try different types of girls and different types of conversation, and gradually the tables will turn in your favor. I can guarantee this, so long as you don't give up.

    Porn Forgotten