I've been having trouble with visiting sex forums again.
I've been masturbating less since I've stopped looking at pornography, which is great because I have more energy and passion. The downside, however, is that I've been very horny. This increase in sexual energy makes pornography very tempting.
I've tried to masturbate without pornography and I can do it but it is not as pleasurable as it used to be when I looked at porn. This is frustrating.
I've got to change my attitude towards masturbation. I get frustrated that it's not as enjoyable but perhaps I can slowly change my perspective so that I just enjoy the pleasure instead of getting frustrated by comparing it to the way it used to be.
I'm still very committed. Although I've visited sex forums, I haven't seen any videos or images of pornography for near 3 weeks now.
Monday, June 20, 2011
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Hi. I appreciate your blog. I am very live and let live about all things sexual but it's too easy to get overinvolved with porn and it wastes so damn much time. However, it is possible to cultivate a masturbation practice away from porn that is extremely pleasurable and satisfying. There is a wonderful Yahoo group devoted to it called mm4m2. MM4M = Mindful Masturbation for Men. It's a very different way of looking at masturbation than our culture is used to. There are some very thoughtful and kind contributors on there who have been through these same challenges. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mm4m2/
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