tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post294492346471642675..comments2023-10-30T09:03:06.039-07:00Comments on Quitting Internet Porn: Day 24snippethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03039077732840018098noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-89100794633387085222006-12-01T08:18:00.000-08:002006-12-01T08:18:00.000-08:00Being sexually and romantically confident around w...Being sexually and romantically confident around women is definitely a large part of being attractive, and of character. I would only caution you not to justify your intense desire for sex as somehow on the higher order of "developing character." (Although some might argue, and I wouldn't disagree, that sex itself is the HIGHEST order).<br /><br />But if developing character is your goal, that will be acheived mostly through world experience, education, and personal development. Most women are not attracted to somebody who's never left his hometown, who is a meathead, and who's only hobby is picking up girls. I'm not accusing you of any of these, but if your goal is character/attractiveness development, I would suggest that focusing on who you are, what you want, and what you enjoy doing will go further toward this end than just sleeping around. <br /><br />I admire your courage in attempting to improve your social skills, regardless. It's something I wish I had done at your age. At least I'm still young enough that it's not too late. I got a girl's phone number just last night, in fact! She was begging me to call her, even though she knew I had a girlfriend. <br /><br />I might just suggest you spend some of the time you might have spent walking around the mall talking to clerks (whose job it is to be friendly to you) and put it toward learning to play the piano, or learning a foreign language, or travelling, or community involvement. Watch how girls light up when you tell them you're a Big Brother, or you volunteer at the animal shelter. Being good pays in more ways than one.<br /><br /><a href="http://pornforgotten.blogspot.com">Porn Forgotten</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07020176792338039892noreply@blogger.com