tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post116274707031985464..comments2023-10-30T09:03:06.039-07:00Comments on Quitting Internet Porn: A very important decisionsnippethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03039077732840018098noreply@blogger.comBlogger190125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-42169048266466285012013-06-12T23:12:45.495-07:002013-06-12T23:12:45.495-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-13180829115099238432013-06-11T20:55:52.605-07:002013-06-11T20:55:52.605-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-72631219139921203252013-06-09T04:12:15.726-07:002013-06-09T04:12:15.726-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-88085498241911113282013-06-08T01:25:43.700-07:002013-06-08T01:25:43.700-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-49359448228140758302013-05-30T21:16:40.716-07:002013-05-30T21:16:40.716-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-955938216805371972013-05-26T04:30:24.272-07:002013-05-26T04:30:24.272-07:00I suggest prayer.. Also fasting and staying away f...I suggest prayer.. Also fasting and staying away from sweets. Sometimes overindulging in other areas can have a wake effect. Pray for those in the porn industry - You should love them, as opposed to lusting them. It's a difficult battle ... Never give up ... Gods mercy is greater than the greatest sinner ... You just need to seek forgiveness everytime. People of this age have a more difficult journey being exposed to this type of material and I think God knows this. He loves you ... Just never give up Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-49697557853574034312013-05-23T18:01:52.056-07:002013-05-23T18:01:52.056-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-65544443331348962472013-05-23T00:09:48.425-07:002013-05-23T00:09:48.425-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-41765874118740189382013-05-06T00:12:11.620-07:002013-05-06T00:12:11.620-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-31468856272404782882013-04-16T16:59:35.896-07:002013-04-16T16:59:35.896-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-26989282489802793412013-04-06T04:41:35.801-07:002013-04-06T04:41:35.801-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-10594763286919492572013-02-05T19:29:06.958-08:002013-02-05T19:29:06.958-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-16529570961486191602012-12-07T22:27:00.214-08:002012-12-07T22:27:00.214-08:00I not only pray for myself, but for all of us. I h...I not only pray for myself, but for all of us. I hope you are all doing well since 2009. This is gonna be a tough road for me. God knows I am done with porn. I was 10 when it started and now, the sense of guilt i get is just to much. I look at the girl I love and feel terrible, because I know while my addiction continues, I am not worthy enough for her. I stop today.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-41987442423368418432012-07-29T03:37:44.054-07:002012-07-29T03:37:44.054-07:00First, I want to thank everyone for their stories....First, I want to thank everyone for their stories. I have been addicted to porn for 13 years. As a recovering alcoholic I understand recovery...been sober for 5 years. But, porn is the last of my addictions and it's an awful battle. I can say that it is definitely progressive and fatal. Full blown porn addiction can lead to loss of love and life. When your porn leaks out into risky sexual behaviors, you realize the gravity of this disease. I have had recent health scares, I have hurt my wife, and it greatly hinders my walk with Christ. I can go 30-90 days then boom...at it again. I do know this kind of thing helps...talking about it. Find some like minded guys to chat with about our mutual problem. Also, I just went on pinkcross.org and read some Tragic behind the scenes stories of porn stars. Anyways, let's hold each other up in prayer...and crush this demon of porn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-8271110585489040012012-07-10T15:34:10.167-07:002012-07-10T15:34:10.167-07:00I'm on day 18 without any porn. I have made lo...I'm on day 18 without any porn. I have made love to my wife four times in the last two weeks with no drug for ED, and was able to maintain an erection and "finish" each time. Last of four times (last night) she was not well with severe cramps, so we finished eachother off "manually". In recent years we were down to having sex about 8-10 times per YEAR which is virtually a sexless marriage. We've made love FOUR TIMES in TWO WEEKS. I have not masturbated by myself since my decision to quit porn and only reach orgasm with my wife as a participant, whether in the act of sex, or masturbating eachother. I really don't want to look at porn anymore - it was preventing me from desiring my wife, and gal who gets checked out all the time. I saw her as objectively beautiful yet I did not desire her. My "performance" was dismal, and even with ED drugs I could not climax and if I did I required sex which was quite rigorous and the wife did NOT find it sensual or appealing at all. Now she claims I am less rigorous and more sensual. I am more relaxed and spend more time on foreplay. Strangely, (ha) she is suddenly interested in sex with me again. I had convinced myself that SHE was the one with the problem and that I was merely "filling in the gap" with my porn use and masturbation. Dead wrong. It was ME who was causing the wedge between me and my wife intimacy wise.<br /><br />If you are trying to quit I really hope you keep at it. If you are trying to quit to save your marriage or relationship or just learn how to love a "real woman" again, I think you might be surprised how quickly you can "re-learn" to appreciate the lure of a real flesh-and-blood sex partner and forget about the emaciated teenie boppers trying to get fame and fortune through what amounts to extreme if not despicable sex acts.<br /><br />I am also exercizing now, which seems to help as well. Good luck to each and every one of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-14621431738017593902012-05-01T20:33:59.316-07:002012-05-01T20:33:59.316-07:00Long story short, im a pastors kid, and we're ...Long story short, im a pastors kid, and we're all screwed up.... when i was 12 my cousin showed me a few magazines and my first thought was "that's disgusting!" but then i started looking on our home computer (my dad's a techy so he finds out alot) <br /> Its been a process, and i still struggle, tonight even i looked at it, but then like all of you i decided that enough was enough and this is ruining my life<br /> I dont know if any of you have my problem, im not a virgin and im 17, which means that you want it even more... every girl that likes me is drop dead gorgeous, and i cant help myself with this crap.<br /> A drug, isnt a fair way to put it, its far more than that, there is no drug as addicting as this... and all of you know that.. <br /> Its good to finally tell someone this even if it is anonymous, so my brothers, stay strong... and another will be there.. you are never alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-68518642127781920102012-03-03T00:10:59.973-08:002012-03-03T00:10:59.973-08:00what shall i do., i keep quitting and falling back...what shall i do., i keep quitting and falling back to it..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-47888719520812550642012-02-29T17:14:23.461-08:002012-02-29T17:14:23.461-08:00I'm trying to kick this 10 year habit I have w...I'm trying to kick this 10 year habit I have with porn. It's probably the most difficult habit to Iv'e ever had to deal with. The evil associated with porn has dragged me down without knowing it, I was very unaware and thought it was 'normal' because my friends used to do it sometime. But me, all the time. I'm not outgoing by nature, but porn makes me unsociable to were I don't talk to women as I should and use my time and potential also. It cuts off, or deteriorates energy that I could put in something else. I'm trying to just quit forever and be with god.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-66072950992710276192012-02-28T01:01:47.143-08:002012-02-28T01:01:47.143-08:00I messsed up my GPA in college, lost a million dol...I messsed up my GPA in college, lost a million dollar business and almost lost ny marriage. I kicked it for months, even years at a time but the old demon alaways came back. Porn is a monster it is not easily contained. Today my life is great again am about to graduate from nursing school and it is a hell of a fight staying clean. I will kick it.. it will not take me to hellAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-48607354006095281632012-02-15T20:47:18.415-08:002012-02-15T20:47:18.415-08:00Hey Guys,
I'm only a 13 year old boy, and I fe...Hey Guys,<br />I'm only a 13 year old boy, and I feel horrible after a maturbate and watch porn. After I finish, I promise my self I will NEVER EVER do it again, but when I'm on the computer on youtube or something, I always end up at some nude girl picture, I get turned on, and BOOM! It begins again. And I'm only 13! I hope you guys can help me, I need support too!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-6478102726723664872012-01-30T15:35:19.362-08:002012-01-30T15:35:19.362-08:00I just want to say I love u all for opening ur hea...I just want to say I love u all for opening ur hearts and sharing ur experiences , I'm reading what u all wrote and it's very useful ! , porn has made a lot of errors in my sexual life and I'm trying to get normal again with all I have of power and strength and will , love u allAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-17274982710788068912012-01-24T23:47:54.034-08:002012-01-24T23:47:54.034-08:00relying on ourselves to quit is why most of us hav...relying on ourselves to quit is why most of us have ended up here. If it were so easy there would be no need for these discussion boards. Maybe you need to ask yourself why the topic of God upsets you so much. By relying on God my life has improved dramatically, plus Im much less stressed out. No longer need to worry about all the little details of life. He is my source, my provider.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-61081160738610497902011-12-06T12:28:05.145-08:002011-12-06T12:28:05.145-08:00i've been stuck for about 6 years. relapse aft...i've been stuck for about 6 years. relapse after relapse i tell myself I'm going to quit and finally this summer after trying to quit for a year i went a month without it, and it was the greatest month of my life. i could feel that my relationship with my girlfriend was finally clicking the way it should, I felt so close to God, and I thought that maybe there was still some hope for me. but the relapse i am in has lasted for 6 months and the urges came back ten times stronger. this battle that we're up against is relentless. i pray ever night for strength and somehow everyday i fail. i've told myself that i will not propose to my girlfriend of 2 years until i am sober and yet everyday as i stumbling i tell myself that i'm still young and that i don't need to worry about marriage, but that's what it does to you, it makes you lie, to yourself, to others. I've never hated anything before but I hate this sin. i hate porn. and it breaks my heart being on here and seeing how much this crap hurts the men in this country. we've got to fight men. we have to fight. we deserve better, and the people we love in our lives deserve better. LET'S BEAT THIS!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-68961277797882914482011-11-23T12:42:49.111-08:002011-11-23T12:42:49.111-08:00I'm quitting as well; it's been hard, but ...I'm quitting as well; it's been hard, but today I deleted my entire 5GB worth of images after slipping up again, it was HARD. I'm sure you can all imagine, feeling how hard it was finding those images; and letting them go, knowing I will never get to see them again. You know it's a problem when you are so attached to image data, just a bunch of pixels displayed on a screen - it's virtual -- it isn't real.<br /><br />The fucked up part is I have a very beautiful and sexy wife! I mean, WTF is wrong with me? I used to routinely drive home in the middle of the day and take a long lunch break from work to wack off to porn while my wife wasn't home.<br /><br />I know this is a problem, and I need to fix it now. I also installed an internet filter on my PC and will give my wife the password or something. Right now I feel OK about this because I just "released" about an hour ago -- but enough is enough, this is so hard to do but I must -- having random images of naked strangers in my head all the time is wrong, I feel quit pathetic.<br /><br />Porn robs us of our self confidence, makes us stare at women on the street (I really think porn makes this MUCH WORSE), makes us less sociable..<br /><br />If anyone else wants to chat about this my email is super89rex@hotmail.com, I have a problem but I'm going to get through this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33565310.post-68222230261831315582011-11-21T15:00:17.555-08:002011-11-21T15:00:17.555-08:00I am the Robert a couple of comments up and I have...I am the Robert a couple of comments up and I have gotten back into the addiction due to the fact that my girlfriend broke up with me on our 2 month anniversary. Honestly after having a gf for a little bit I see I need someone tht loves me like tht cuz my support staff (my brother and dad) both r unstable cuz my dad got a divorce and tht killed me and my brother is depressed and suicidal so I can't really talk to him and my ex is talking to my brother and my best friend so please everybody pray for me for patience and the willpower to stop resorting to porn. Thanks and god blessRobertnoreply@blogger.com